9 + 27: Lunar birth day compatibility

This is a meeting of heavy, viscous control and an absolutely elusive element.
It frustrates you that the twenty-seventh day can't be pinned down to specifics: they float in illusions, forget promises, and are late while you drive yourself crazy with doomsday scenarios.
You call demanding a report, while your partner sincerely doesn't understand why you're so tense, believing that 'the universe will sort it out.'
Your anxiety crashes against their detachment, creating a sense that you're speaking through thick glass.
In sex, you seek release and passion through conflict, while your partner awaits elevated romance and tenderness, scared by your intensity.
In business, this is a failing combination unless there's a strict division of responsibility: you're in charge of money and deadlines, while your partner handles inspiration, and you don't interfere in each other’s domains.
They don’t provide you with the assurance of safety that you're looking for, and you smother them with your fears.
To be together, you’ll have to come to terms: you’ll never be able to fully control them.
Let go of the leash, or they’ll simply disappear into the fog without explanation.