5 + 17: Lunar birth day compatibility

A complex, exhausting union where one tries to be an adult while the other perpetually plays the role of a drunk teenager at graduation.
The Fifth Day lives by the rules, values structure and meanings.
The Seventeenth is pure joy, chaos, wine, and lack of brakes.
At first, you might be drawn to this ease, hoping it will lighten your seriousness.
But when it comes to commitments, hell breaks loose.
You plan mortgages while the partner spends their stash on a spontaneous trip or party.
You try to have a serious conversation, and they turn everything into a joke or accuse you of being stuffy.
In bed, it can be fun because of the Seventeenth's liberality, but the Fifth Day will always feel a lack of depth and sacred meaning in what’s happening.
In affairs and partnerships, it's a disaster: the Five will pull the weight for both while the Seventeenth creates a "creative atmosphere" that doesn't bring in money.
You will constantly be triggered by their irresponsibility, and they will be triggered by your control.
To survive together, you need to completely divide budgets and relieve yourself of responsibility for the partner's behavior, or else you will turn into an eternally dissatisfied parent.