30 + 12: Lunar birth day compatibility

Two empaths in a boat slowly sinking from an excess of feelings.
Both of you are tuned into subtle vibrations, compassion, and understanding, but in a couple, this turns into a swamp.
The twelfth day embodies the energy of sacrifice and help, while the thirtieth represents love and forgiveness.
It seems it should be perfect, but in practice, both of you await initiative from the other.
Neither wants to take responsibility for solving domestic problems.
The faucet drips, bills pile up, and you sit discussing lofty matters or silently resenting the imperfections of the world.
The hysterical woman (even if it’s a man) is a frequent guest here: the twelfth day tends to self-pity, and you start to drown in it together.
Sex can be deeply emotional, almost tantric, but often lacks fire and earthly passion — too many tears and sighs.
In business, this is a complete failure: you will give all your money to the poor, or clients will ride on your back.
The relationship requires a rigid external framework or a third party (an accountant, cleaner, manager) to solve earthly problems for you.