Compatibility by Moon birth day: 28 + 21

A classic example of how speed kills relationships. The twenty-first partner is like a stampede of horses: loud, honest, pushy, and completely unceremonious. You, on the other hand, are tuned into subtle vibrations and silence. The conflict begins with mundane details: you want to sit with a book, while the partner has already gathered a crowd of guests, turned on music, and demands that you immediately enjoy life along with everyone else. Your thoughtfulness is mistaken for gloom or arrogance, and they try to 'shake you up' with the coarsest methods. The pace literally makes you feel nauseous. In sex, the twenty-first takes charge with enthusiasm and athletic zest but often misses your subtle hints for foreplay. In business, it’s a disaster of coordination: while you're intuitively probing the market, the partner has already made a mess, signed three contracts, and lost half the money, but 'gained experience'. You will find it difficult to respect their fussiness, and they will struggle with your passivity. To avoid going crazy, you'll need to learn to say 'no' firmly and slam the door in the face of their overflowing energy, or you'll be trampled underfoot despite their best intentions.