Quick summary
You look at your partner and see all your flaws under a magnifying glass.
Points of attraction
This is a painful connection based on projections: what irritates you in them is exactly what you carefully hide in yourself.
The partner acts as a mirror, unconsciously mimicking your manners, tone, and even your claims.
Differences
At first, it seems like a soul connection ('we are so alike!'), but quickly devolves into an absurd theater where two actors try to outplay each other in the same role.
Fights here are cyclical and meaningless.
Possible conflicts
You accuse them of selfishness — they mirror back the accusation.
Emotional dynamics
You withdraw — they also fall silent.
You will never get from them what you don’t give yourself.
Communication
Sex can feel strange, as if you're making love to yourself: lots of technique, but little contact with a real person.
There’s often the sense that your partner is wearing a mask, but the truth is that you are the one who put that mask on them.
Everyday interaction
In business, confusion reigns.
Long-term dynamics
Both wait for the other to take the initiative, both are afraid to take responsibility, yet criticize any steps taken.
This swamp pulls you in.
Practical recommendations
To be together without losing your mind, you need to stop seeking your reflection in your partner and start seeing a separate individual.
Stop 'raising' them; otherwise, you’re just fighting with your own shadow.
Calculation limits
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