23 + 30: Lunar birth day compatibility

A complicated scenario resembling the fable of the elephant in the china shop.
The Twenty-Third is about push, capture, and provocation.
The Thirtieth embodies lightness, love, and a quest for beauty and completeness.
Initially, the Thirtieth seems sweet and festive to you, while you appear to them as a reliable wall.
But very quickly, you begin to unconsciously ‘break’ your partner.
Your communication style (jabs, sharpness, a commanding tone) is perceived by the Thirtieth as a personal offense and rudeness.
They expect flowers and compliments from you, while you bring the spoils and demand they prepare them.
When the Thirtieth cries or gets offended, it irritates the Twenty-Third: ‘Why are you whining again about nonsense?’
You find them childish, while they see you as cruel.
In bed, you might lack passion, while they desire foreplay and tenderness.
In business, the Thirtieth is great for the final stages of projects and creating an image, but in crisis situations, where you feel like a fish in water, they get lost and panic.
The hard advice is this: if you don’t learn to lower the volume and remove the sharp edges when entering the home, you’ll destroy your partner's self-esteem, and they’ll flee to someone gentler.