Quick summary
You speak different languages, pretending to understand each other: you use the language of logic and textbooks, while your partner speaks the language of hints, sighs, and intuition.
Points of attraction
At first, you are charmed by their softness and adaptability, but soon your straightforwardness starts slicing into their delicate nature like a scalpel.
Differences
You demand an explanation for their bad mood in bullet points, while they just shut down and broadcast hurt, expecting you to 'feel' the answer yourself.
Possible conflicts
The sexual sphere requires an unusual softness from you: any careless word can kill your partner's libido for a week.
Emotional dynamics
At work, they can be useful as an indicator of the atmosphere in the team, but don’t expect them to exhibit the strict discipline of which you are so proud.
Communication
The main mistake is trying to 'calibrate' your partner and make them thicker-skinned.
Everyday interaction
This is impossible.
Long-term dynamics
Accept that their 'I feel' is as substantial an argument for them as 'I know for sure' is for you.
Calculation limits
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