Quick summary
It feels like you are trying to build a house on a foundation of soap bubbles.
Points of attraction
Your partner seems perfect, bright, complete, but absolutely elusive to your character.
Differences
You strive for specificity, to accumulate experiences, and to check 'done', while your partner lives in the moment and often behaves like a child who simply enjoys life.
Possible conflicts
Their unseriousness and lack of ambition in your understanding of the word irritate you.
Emotional dynamics
You say: 'We need to plan a mortgage', they say: 'Let’s just love each other.' This dialogue between the deaf and the mute leads you to feel like an old bore next to them.
Communication
Sex is tender, but you miss 'physicality'; everything feels too ephemeral.
Everyday interaction
In business, cooperation is a failure: your partner tends to finish things and let go, while you want to accumulate and develop.
Long-term dynamics
You speak different languages of time.
Practical recommendations
To preserve the union, you need to stop demanding results and achievements from them.
Perceive them as a vacation, not as work; otherwise, you will go crazy from their passivity.
Calculation limits
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