21 + 13: Lunar birth day compatibility

This is an alliance of two speeds that can never sync up.
You're drawn to the partner's mystery, thinking there's deep wisdom behind their silence, but in practice, it often turns out to be indecisiveness.
You're used to taking charge and solving problems right away, while the Seventeenth constantly looks back, chewing on old grievances and searching for hidden meanings where there are none.
Conflict is inevitable when you've packed your bags for a spontaneous trip, and your partner is stuck in contemplation about whether the iron is turned off and 'what this will lead to.'
In bed, you demand passion and dynamism, but receive strange, cyclical scenarios that quickly become boring.
In business, it's a disaster: you press the gas, while your partner pulls the handbrake, trying to 'improve' last year's report.
The survival rule: never rush them in small things, or you'll get passive aggression of such a level that you'll want to escape to another continent.