Compatibility by Moon birth day: 16 + 20

Two intellectuals who can sit in the same room in silence for hours, both feeling comfortable. This is an alliance based on arrogance towards the rest of the world: you both consider yourselves a bit more aware than those around you. However, problems arise when the Twentieth day switches to ‘great teacher’ mode. They love to lecture, demand spiritual growth, and look down even on close ones. The Sixteenth, who is the embodiment of harmony, takes this as a personal insult. In daily life, you may find that neither wants to wash the dishes because you’re both busy with ‘higher matters’. Your sex life is more technical or elevated than passionate: there’s plenty of talk before and after, but there may be a lack of primal drive during the act. In business, you’re ideal strategists who can see the big picture, but you absolutely need a third person to do the grunt work. The Sixteenth dims the decisiveness of the Twentieth, while the Twentieth gives the Sixteenth the determination they often lack. For the partnership to be strong, the Twentieth needs to step down from their pedestal and stop viewing the partner as a project for remodeling. Respect personal boundaries, and your cool compatibility will become a solid foundation.