Quick summary
This is a complicated contact, like trying to hammer a nail with a violin.
Points of attraction
The Four lives in a world of words, analysis, and endless reflection, while you live by instincts and action.
Differences
You are drawn to their mystery and ability to speak beautifully, but this soon starts to annoy you.
You are a person of bursts: 'I see the goal — I see no obstacles.' The Four, however, is a person of doubt: 'What do we need this goal for?
Possible conflicts
What are the prerequisites?'.
Emotional dynamics
When you come home charged with energy or irritation, you want either sex or clear action.
The Four responds by weighing you down with complex conversations, analyzing your state, and searching for 'the roots of the problem' in childhood.
Communication
This infuriates you to no end.
Everyday interaction
Your straightforward aggression scares your partner, making them retreat into passive defense or ignoring you, which angers you even more.
In sex, you are often too rough for them, and they are too 'in their head' for you.
Long-term dynamics
In business, the Four can be useful as an analyst, but only if you don’t hover over them with a stopwatch.
Practical recommendations
The only way to survive: don’t try to wring their soul out.
Leave them to their books and thoughts, and drain your energy in the gym, not on your partner.
Calculation limits
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