10 + 21: Lunar birth day compatibility

You're drawn to your partner's unbridled energy and honesty, while they appreciate your softness, which provides a breath of fresh air.
But the idyll collapses under the difference in speeds.
You are a smooth river; your partner is a rushing herd.
You enjoy long foreplays, reminiscences, and tactfulness, while they chop down the truth, unaware of how their straightforwardness hurts you.
A typical argument might start when you feel offended by a sharp remark and expect an apology, subtly hinting at your pain, while your partner has already forgotten about the conversation and sincerely doesn’t understand why you have a sour face.
In daily life, you will be forever tidying up what they’ve scattered in the heat of action.
In bed, they crave drive, sports, and spontaneity, while you often lack tenderness and long embraces afterward.
At work, your partner is a battering ram, breaking through walls, while you are the peacemaker who smooths the edges.
To avoid losing your mind, you must stop expecting them to be finely attuned emotionally.
They are not cruel; they simply move quickly.
Accept their roughness as a given, and seek out tenderness and deep conversations with friends instead of demanding the impossible.