1 + 12: Lunar birth day compatibility

The union of a dry logician and an emotional empath.
At first, the 'one' enjoys this softness: the partner seems accommodating, understanding, accepting all your quirks.
But outside it’s care, while inside you’re growing irritated by their passivity and 'whining'.
The 'twelve' lives from the heart and intuition, you from the head and plan.
When you propose a concrete solution to a problem, the partner suggests 'praying' or simply waiting it out.
Their self-sacrifice annoys you, while your coldness and straightforwardness offend them.
You can hurt them deeply with a word without even noticing.
In bed, the partner seeks a profound soulful connection and tenderness, while you often just satisfy a physiological need.
In work, the 'twelve' can be helpful as an intuitive advisor, but not as an executor.
To keep the pair, you will have to learn to accept their feelings as facts, not as a 'system error'.