Moon day: Moon day 3 + Moon day 16

A classic scenario of 'an elephant in a china shop.' You are pure, concentrated energy in action, sometimes rough and sharp. The sixteenth-day partner embodies balance, passivity, and a desire for peace. His slowness and 'lack of backbone' irritate you, while his pushiness and loud voice frighten him. You come home ready to turn the world upside down or at least rearrange the furniture, while he wants to lie down, contemplate, and avoid sudden movements. Conflict is inevitable: you try to shake him up, he goes into a deep defense or psychosomatic response. In sex, you're bored: you want a marathon and passion, while the partner awaits tenderness and soul merging, perceiving your energy as violence. In business partnership, this can fail unless you work in different buildings: you'll end up doing all the work for him, accumulating resentment. To avoid going crazy, understand that you won't turn him into a fighter. Leave him be, find a hobby for an adrenaline release outside of home, and use the partner as a calm harbor where you can just lie silently after battle.