Moon day: Moon day 3 + Moon day 12

You see your partner as a fragile flower you want to protect, but your sharpness regularly tramples them down. Your natural volume, gesticulation, and pressure are perceived by them as a direct threat to life. You just emotionally shared a story about work, and they are already internally shrunk, offended, and prepared to cry. The conflict here is always one-sided: you attack (often without malicious intent, just by inertia), while your partner plays the eternal victim, evoking not your pity, but irritation and a desire to 'shake' them up. In intimacy, you are always the leader, and if your partner enjoys the submissive role, everything will work out, but you'll quickly tire of the lack of initiative and fire. In business, this is a failing scheme for equal partnership: you'll be bearing all the load, solving problems, while your partner waits for guidance and sympathy for their sensitive nature. The relationship holds only on your patience. The advice is simple: turn down the volume by half and stop expecting heroic deeds from them — they are meant for something else.