Moon day: Moon day 26 + Moon day 4

In this union, you risk becoming a tyrant, even if you didn’t plan to. The four is inherently doubtful, weighing options and seeking the roots of problems, while your categoricalness and confidence in your own correctness can simply crush their psyche. You see a problem and instantly know the solution (or who is to blame), while your partner may get stuck over the menu in a restaurant for twenty minutes. This drives you crazy; you start to pressure, sneer, and rush them. In response, the four retreats into a deep, defensive silence or begins passive aggression, confusing your cards with 'random' mistakes. In bed, you might find it a bit boring: you expect initiative or play, while your partner waits for a signal that they are doing everything right. In business, it's a disaster: you will wait for a report, while your partner will search for the perfect font for a presentation. You are for them a source of constant stress, a figure of a strict parent before whom they fear to mess up. The relationship may survive on your guardianship, but this quickly exhausts both. The only way to survive here is to drop the commanding tone and give your partner the right to make mistakes and time to think, even if it seems to you that the world will collapse from this slowness.