Moon day: Moon day 21 + Moon day 28

This contact feels like running in water: you put in maximum effort but hardly move from the spot. Their calm, almost arrogant contemplation irritates you. You're used to taking what you want by force and pressure, while the partner observes your efforts with a slight smirk, as if knowing that all this fuss is pointless. At first, their zen might seem wise to you, but soon you'll begin to see it as passivity and laziness. Conflict is inevitable when you face everyday problems. The pipe bursts at your place, you rush with buckets and call the plumber, while the partner philosophically notes that 'things tend to break down.' This drives you crazy, making you want to shake them to elicit even a drop of genuine emotion. In bed, you are too different: you need release and fire, while the partner seeks long foreplay and soulful unity, which you aren't always willing to provide. Joint business or a mortgage with such a person is a bad idea; you'll end up shouldering the burden for both. The only chance is to lower your expectations and not wait for heroic feats from them.