Moon day: Moon day 21 + Moon day 12

A classic scenario of 'the knight and the gentle soul' that looks beautiful in books but is challenging in daily life. Your assertiveness and honesty are perceived by the 'twelfths' as salvation and protection, but your directness often cuts their heart without a knife. You are about action and justice, while they are about compassion and self-sacrifice. You may accidentally hurt them with a rude word or forget an important date because you were busy with your 'war', and your partner will silently suffer and accumulate this pain until it erupts as a nervous breakdown. A typical scene: you try to logically unravel a problem, while your partner cries and asks for a hug. This puzzles you: 'Why tears when we need a solution?'. In sex, you definitely dominate, and your partner enjoys that, as long as you don’t become too mechanical; they need tenderness, which you don’t always have the resource for. In affairs, their intuition can save you from reckless steps if you learn to listen, not just command. For this to work, you'll need to buy 'velvet gloves' and learn to filter your blunt honesty, or you’ll end up breaking this person.