Moon day: Moon day 25 + Moon day 12

Two deep-sea divers out of oxygen, but too polite to say so. This is a connection of two passive beginnings: you are immersed in yourself, while your partner ('Heart') is absorbed in their emotions and suffering. At first, it seems like paradise of understanding: no one is rushing anywhere, one can sit in silence for hours and lament the imperfection of the world. But soon, everyday life turns into a swamp. The partner expects pity, active help, and a life jacket for tears from you, while you, being a naturally detached observer, offer dry wisdom instead of hugs. This wounds the 'Twelve' deeply. As a result, dirty dishes sit for a week because one is depressed while the other is meditating. In sex, there’s a lot of tenderness, tears, and soulfulness, but catastrophically lacking fire and initiative — you both wait for the first step from the other. Financially, this is a path to bankruptcy through charity: you both do not know how to fight for your own. The relationship can last forever due to habit and fear of hurting each other, but without an external stimulus, they will simply freeze. You need an external 'alarm clock' or a strict schedule of duties; otherwise, you will become overgrown with algae.