Moon day: Moon day 20 + Moon day 28

There is a wall of cotton between you that cannot be broken with a fist. You are charged for achievement, flight, and territorial conquest, while your partner is tuned to contemplation and inner peace. You come home wanting to discuss a strategy for defeating competitors, expecting support and a battle cry, but what you get is herbal tea and advice to ‘let go of the situation.’ This does not calm you; it drives you into a rage. You see their calmness as laziness and passivity, while they perceive your ambition as pointless fuss and aggression that disrupts karma. Intimacy suffers from the temperamental difference. You want release and drive; they expect a tantric merging of souls, which you are usually not ready for after a hard day. Ultimately, you feel like a coarse barbarian, while they see themselves as an unrecognized saint. In partnership, they may only be useful as a brake for your recklessness, but you rarely listen to brakes. Conflict is inevitable because you are trying to reshape their nature to fit your rhythm. The only chance for this couple is if you leave your war at the threshold of the home and learn to stay silent beside them, not considering it a waste of time.